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Did you try to find out the reason that why your daughter cries.. Why she doesn't like school....does she get along with other children in your neighbourhood.. Or she likes to stay alone... Is someone bothering her over there.. What does her teacher say regarding this.. If she has problems with that particular school then change it... But first find out reason for your child behaviour.... Some kids are stubborn and some kids have genuine reason... Dnt ignore.. All the best
Thanks Ayesha.. actually in their school max new kids cry. Teacher tells that its normal. We have to send our babies even if they cry. Gradually she will be habituated with the school environment. My baby play with others in presence of us. At first she shies.. but then she plays with other children. She mostly loves to play with her cousin brother and with the family members. Yeah, in school students teacher ratio is very high. Only one teacher with 20-25 students. They might not show interest at her. It might be the reason. But what should I do?
Maybe she is introvert... Needs time to open up.. Everything is so new to her.. Maybe the thought that she will be all alone for few hours with complete strangers scares her... Just give her some time.. At least a month... Pack something which she likes in her bag so atleast that excites her... Or as you said abt her cousins.. Are they elder to her ?? Send her to school with someone of her age maybe from your building or anyone she is familiar with.
Thanks Ayesha.. her cousin goes to same school.but in Jr.Kg. their classroom is different. If they stay with each other,they just play with each other which is against the school's rule.
If ur kid doesnt want to go. ask the child reason for that. may be environment of school not paying the attention to kids.otherwise just change the school because one of my teacher friend says to me infront of parents teachers become very polite but after parents leave the child in some pg not giving attention the kids are crying even dont bother to stop them . It just up to u.
Thanks Palak.. yeah I m also thinking the same. The teachers and care takers might not paying attention. My baby also says so.
Welcome i hope ur problem solve soon and ur child will happily go to school bcoz pg is the base for child for future schools.☺
Hey dears.. a good news. My baby is not crying to go to school since last week. Thanks a lot for ur valuable suggestions. I applied ur tricks along with my new ideas and it really worked out. Hope she will not be crying afterwards. Thanks a lot dears..
So happy to hear that.. Plz share your new ideas also with us... Might help me in future as i don't know how my son will react when he goes to school and will help other moms too... Stay blessed.. Take care..
Actually their school teacher shared some pics of Yoga Day celebration in FB. But my baby's pic was missing there. So it hurts her a bit , I think. She just wnted to know why they dint put her pic. I told her that u r a cranky baby. U always cry. Thats why they dnt like u. If u dnt cry then they take ur pic too. It worked. That day I asked her teacher to send me her pic while in school. Accordingly she sent her pic. I showed it to my baby saying that u r a good girl and u dint cry. Thats y they took ur pic.
Secondly, I gave her gift that day. And 2 days after she got her school dress n bag kit from school. I told her ur teachers love u as u r not crying now and so they give u this gift. She became so happy then. Then after she stopped crying till now. Though in the holidays she becomes more happy knowing that she does not have to go to school. Lets see. Hope for the best. Thank u all once again.
☺ happy to hear that.
The same situation m going through....just don't know how to deal with dis....she is also 2.8 yrs nd she is not ready to accept the school...don't know why..if she is not interested in studies or what is happening to her....she just cry...after coming from school she just say ki Kal school to nhi Jana...and when night come she started saying that morning me school to nhi jana and ask me ki tum kaha rahogi school me tum nhi rehti ho etc etc..
Kabhi kabhi gussa aati hai kabhi sympathy hoti hai kabhi irritation hoti hai ki sare bacche to ja rahe hai haste hue why only she is doing that..aisa lagta hai jaldi admission kara Diya uska.
Same problem for max children Pallavi. Dont worry. My child was also having same issues. But now she is now okay with school. Kindly read the above queries n answers of all. These may help u anyway. Hope ur baby will be loving to go to school soon.