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Assuming each kid also whines at home, use Howard Glasser's "Toys R Us" principle.
What if the kid's favorite toy automatically shut off and stopped working every time he whined? What if it automatically came to life when the kid ceased to whine? The kid would most likely learn to give up whining.
Well, you, the parent, are actually the kid's favorite toy.
When is he not whining, come to life. Talk to him, give him face-time and affectionate touch, be lively and enthusiastic.
When he whines, shut down, become unresponsive, don't talk to him, don't look at him, look away, move away, read a magazine, look out the window. (When you first start doing this, the whining may get worse for a day or two, the "extinction burst", and then slowly fade away.
Note that a 1 yo will have times of actual emotional distress where they need emotional support. So, use your parental judgement and intuition about when to apply this method.