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M talking abt some other issues like marital issues etc
Hey Rimsha everyone goes through marital issues.... If it is really serious please go ahead and let us know how can we help you
My husband always taunts me. He pretend like i m not loyal to him. He tries to test me that m i sincere to him or not... He wants me yo stay quite whenever he says rubbish to me.. sometimes he says put your eyes down.. when he want he talk so good and when he is nt in mood he mistreat me.. m feeling really disturbed.. i cant live lika puppit. I have good terma with his family but he thinks m nt loyal to his fam as well..what i do.? All i need is love n respect from him.
Since how long this is happening...
Is it after baby's birth?
Have you spoken with him when he is in good mood.
He can't just take his frustration out on you.
Loyalty means what, are you his employee.
No it is happening after six months months of my marriage.. he wants me to live like this. Not to react over anything.. i thought birth if baby will chnge everything but nothing happnd.. m at my mothers place nd he didnt call me. Its been 3 days without any contact..
I talked so many times. Nd m developing mtself acc yo him as well. But m also a humanbeing i also hve emotions n feelings. I cant bear taunts everytime..
Have you spoken about this with your family..
Was he expecting a boy and upset with girl.
You should not have planned a baby... Such mentality never changes.. They remain dominating unless you decide enough is enough.
No its nothing like that boy or girl.. its only a dominating nature.. i talked to his n mine fam as well.. but nothing went good.. infact his fam only support him. He behave so well infront of people. Nobody can suspect his this kind of behavior. I only know this..
How many years since marriage??. Is it arranged??
Download healofy aap,n go for job nearby.when your child complete 5years of life
He wont allow me to go for job
I have seen all answers above,all moms had given suggestions too,can understand your pain...
But don't worry,
There is nothing like no solution for any problem.
Sit and calmly you talk with him,let all the things you forget which had happened with you earlier,spend more time,he might be having any office issues or something which is bothering him,try to figure out that,you ask him what's the problem he is facing,you should give a moral support to him,you need to change his mood dear...
Every where issues will be,don't think you are the one who is facing...
But we need to be bold and strong,you only call to him and talk,you mentioned that there is no call from 3 days...
If you show more concern on him,there is a chance of changing his mood,it's jus my opinion...
Hope your problem will solve and soon you will be happy,
Take care mom🙂
Thank u so much dear. But he is having fun with friends n enjoyng life. There is nothing any offic issue etc.. i cant feel myslef degrade everytime.
There should be some reason for such a behaviour.. Only you will know this..
Was this marriage against his will..
See Rimsha we as human being have this tendency to blame the other person.. You first analyse what's wrong between you both..
Maybe sometimes we are also at fault... Try to figure out... If there is any annoying behaviour from your side then try to rectify.
I am not saying to tolerate his bad behaviour but first find the real reason..
After delivery woman faces postpartum depression.. Am not saying u r having but many woman have this.. I also get irritated for small things. Sometimes i feel helpless.
Totally agree with Ayesha and Mahi,
There will be some issues which happened with you both,once you open up and talk with him dear,many fights will get calm with jus love,so try to get resolve from that...