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I m 4 months pregnant
May be your morning sicknesses made him you are sick and made him worry
Say ur son about the baby by keeping his hands on ur tummy.... always say positive points to him abt a new baby & how should he take care... just put a question for e.g.: Wil u share ur toys with baby if he is interested about the baby he would say S else No.... when the ans is No u can just say him in simple words which he can understand it's ur baby it's coming to play with u...... ur husband and ur parents r the in laws should play an important role.... ask ur husband to give bath by playing so that he Wil never ask u mama give me bath..... ask ur mom to feed him by the way he wants...... speak to him every day abt the baby.... ask him what gift he wants from the baby try to give him surprisingly.... and ask him what Wil he give in return to the baby.... there's a books in Amazon abt the siblings try to get it & read it for him..... this are all the few tricks I tried &it helped me &now I'm having 26days second baby..... my son wanted a sister bt unfortunately it's a boy again....from the 4th month I started saying my son abt a new baby. I would lik to share 1more incident 1day my son was in neighbors house to play thr my neighbor asked a girl when is the baby coming to ur home before she replied my son had ans in 4months it'll arrive..... I used to take him with me for my check ups, I used to make him mingle with all the matters of baby.... I also took him when I go to scanning.... if he was allowed to Labour ward I would have taken him bt my husband was with me..... v as the mother's shld say teach thm.... as how much v avoid thy Wil demand for that so never avoid him..... they want to sleep with us allow him sleep bt u don't sleep after he fall sleep keep 2pillows 1on the other even if he kicks his legs should nt touch u..... say him baby is in tummy na I can't bend Wil u pls pick me up that Wil u pls help me..... this was all the tricks I tried..... ask ur husband to take care of him from now he plays a very imp role....... hug him kiss him on all things he do...... he should nt feel alone encourage him..... If my ans is very long if it's boring I'm too sorry..... I have shared what I did during my second pregnancy that's it......
Thanks for answer... I m trying to make things in the same way.. buy my family is not participating especially my mil.. she don't want to do any work relating to my kid, only she can play with him... I have asked her many times to make him feed, to make him bath but she simply denies