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I am a mother of only child... It was a mutual decision by me and husband when we were planning a child that we will have only one... Coz we both have siblings and we have faced partiality from our parents... I am not saying that it was intentional but it is human nature to like one child more than the other... Parents will never agree openly but it is a fact... Kids are very intelligent and pick up very fast that they are less favourite then their sibling.. Which obviously affects them in growing years... The other reason is sibling rivalry.. Which my husband faced... He was bullied and beaten by his elder brother as there was 6 years age gap so he was not ready to share his parents attention with younger brother ... I didn't face any sibling issue but my mother always had soft corner for my elder brother as we have only 1 yr age gap and my mother thought my brother was ignored due to my birth and always taunted me thru my growing years...We simply don't want our son to go thru all this... It is very difficult to strike a balance.. I have asked all mothers who have more than one child and they have the same answer that one is more favourite then other.
Parents play an important role in gender equality. Whether it is first education, socialism or various aspects of life, thats all begin from home. These are the basics, we as a parent endeavour to our kids.
"BOYS WILL BE BOYS", this must not be a predecided notion in a family. Boys are also a part of the family and if a male is working or helping in daily routines like washing clothes or serving the meal, this will not lower the prestige of the family. If they inhibits in the same house, then they have to perform their part too.
Respecting genders and making a male understand his emotions rather than enforcing him that he can't show or cry kind of attributes can also be entrusted by parents under gender equality. Boys may not feel always strong.
Seperation of games at a young age may also disintegrate the concept of gender equality. Let them play what they want to play. Playing with a doll by a boy should not be a shocker. This will not at all change his sex or physical attribute. Rather he would develop a connection which will definitely convert as an asset for him in future.
Well like they say every kid is different so is pregnancy n parenting for every mother.the best person is u.u learn through experience when i was pregnant i used to read alot plus i used to ask alot of questions to my frds,sis,mom,granny on pregnancy n child birth later parenting is different for all kids my baby has different enthusiasm than me or my husband so i just learn by the flow.though when i am stuck i never shy away from asking questions.also when u have experience at home better use it.
Some times, I am out of mind with anger and start scolding on my daughter but it doesn't work because to see my behaviour my angel become more stubborn like she flattens things on floor .
So from my experience we should not scold on child. every situation can be handle with love and politeness so ,be patience and see changes in your kid if you give more importance to your little one. Always give first priority to her /his ideas and conversations.
We brush together, we are doing yoga together, eating lunch in one plate like Mama and son, we do read books together, we sing together so loudly like we won't hear anything 😂 we do dance together. We play football, While he do his homework I'll write mine, I will engage him even at small household chores, we face paint on each other's face😂 we minimize watching TV but we explore ourselves. After school kill nap and then we talk talk alot by sitting what we did in whole day like what I did in home and he at his school, we mostly communicate with ourself Instead of engaging ourselves with mobile and other stuffs,instead going to malls we prefer we in the sense me and ma son FYI, we prefer to go to beaches often we play like anything in water and sand. So far this is what our routine. And for every festive like Diwali Christmas and ramzan Im teaching him to offer things to needy, we are doing it so far and that's his favorite part from all of it, I'm so proud about that, we are good and happy 😍 this is not only our daily routine but it's for a lifetime to do good things and learn and teach good things to make him love and kind.
Yes we can go salon but don't do bleach in that acid available it maybe harm to your skin or might be baby otherwise anything you can do
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